YOU want some peace at home. You dream of having kids that listen and co-operate.You'd love to eliminate the constant battles and shouting, while at the same time build a relationship that
has trust and connection AND helps your child build confidence and self-respect.You want your child to grow up feeling secure and being indepedent.I have practical tools, coaching and support to make it
happen, in a way that is quicker and easier than you've ever imagined.You can join the Interactive Online Workshop today!
Imagine a home that feels calmer, more cooperative, and filled with connection instead of constant battles.
You would have peace of mind and feel relaxed. The stress and worry that makes your neck ache and your mood snappy would disappear.You’d no longer have the anxiety of worrying if you're doing it "right", instead you’d feel more steady and in control of your life.You’d have tools you can rely on when things go wrong, learning how to deal with tantrums, backtalk and sibling fights so you’re not reacting in the heat of the moment, but responding with intention.You’d feel confident in your approach, knowing you’re raising capable, resilient children who feel secure and valued.Because things feel more settled at home, you’d have more energy to actually enjoy your children. The fun moments, the laughter, the connection.You’d feel freer to be the parent you want to be, and create the kind of family life you’ve always imagined.
Things would feel so much easier… wouldn’t they?
The only way your parenting experience is going to shift, is if you...
THIS PROVEN POSITIVE DISCIPLINE APPROACH WILL HELP YOU CREATE A CALMER, MORE CONNECTED FAMILY LIFE.
So what exactly is the
Positive Discipline workshop?
It’s a 6 week, online parenting program that gives you practical tools, powerful mindset shifts, and simple, easy-to-use strategies to help you
parent with more calm, confidence, and connection no matter what challenges you’re currently facing at home.
Calmer, more confident parenting
This isn’t a program filled with complicated theory or unrealistic expectations.
It’s simple to understand and easy to implement in real life, even on the hard days.You’ll learn practical tools and approaches that you can start using immediately,
helping you shift from reacting in the moment to responding with intention.Inside the program, you’ll receive guidance, support, and a sense of community, so you’re
not doing this alone as you make meaningful, lasting changes in your home.Whether you feel like you’re struggling and unsure where to start, or you already have some knowledge but want
more consistency, this program will help you build a calmer, more connected, and more cooperative family life.
Choose your
20 May 2026 workshop is full!
The next one starts on 19 August 2026
Pre-register for early bird sales now!
Only 12 spots available!
Full 6-Week Workshop
Early bird price: R2,200 (sales open 5 August 2026)
Normal Price: R2,500
Workshops are limited to 12 participants per session.
The workshops will run on a Wednesday night from 8pm - 9pm
With this workshop, you will get:
- The Positive Discipline eBook
- The Positive Discipline Workbook
- The 52 Positive Discipline Tool Cards
- Ongoing support from your parent educator and fellow parents
Optional extra
One-on-One Private Session
Price: R800
Includes:
45 minute private Zoom call
Online Introductory Workshop
Price: FREE
Next one is on 5 August 2026 from 8pm - 9pm
Learn about the Positive Discipline Principles
Take home some tools you can use immediately.
The 6 Positive Discipline Sessions
What do you want for your children?
Gain clarity on the kind of adult you’re raising and how your day-to-day parenting approach shapes your
child’s behaviour and development.Learn how to use curiosity questions instead of telling, so you can reduce power struggles and start creating more
cooperative, respectful interactions at home.
KIND AND FIRM PARENTING
Understand what it really means to be both
kind and firm, and why this balance is key to effective, respectful discipline.Learn practical tools like Do vs Don’t, how your child’s brain works in the moment, and how to guide behaviour without punishment, so you can respond calmly and confidently, even in challenging situations.
belief behind the behaviour
Learn how to identify the belief behind your child’s behaviour using the Mistaken Goal Chart, so you can respond in a way that addresses the root cause, not just the behaviour.Gain insight into why children act the way they do, helping you reduce frustration and respond with more clarity, confidence, and effectiveness in challenging moments.
BUILDING CONNECTION AND COOPERATION
Learn how to use family meetings to create more cooperation, problem-solving, and a sense of belonging in your home.Discover how to set firm limits with empathy while using encouragement to help your child feel capable, valued, and motivated to contribute.
COMMUNICATION AND ENCOURAGEMENT
Strengthen your communication by learning how to guide your child through asking instead of telling, helping them think, learn, and take responsibility.Understand the difference between encouragement and praise, and how to support your child in a way that builds confidence, resilience, and a genuine sense of capability.
RESPONSIBILITY, GROWTH AND LONG-TERM CHANGE
Learn to reflect on your role as a parent and how your responses influence your child’s behaviour and development.Develop practical ways to repair after mistakes, take responsibility, and align your parenting with your values, so you can move forward with greater clarity and intention.
Positive Discipline will help you break free from reactive parenting habits and step into a more calm, confident, and connected way of raising your child.
Testimonials
20 May 2026 workshop is full!
The next one starts on 19 August 2026
Pre-register for the early bird sales now!
Only 12 spots available!
Full 6-Week Course
Early bird price: R2,200 (Sales open 5 August 2026)
Normal Price: R2,500
Workshops are limited to 12 participants per session.
The workshops will run on a Wednesday night from 8pm - 9pm
With this workshop, you will get:
- The Positive Discipline eBook
- The Positive Discipline Workbook
- The 52 Positive Discipline Tool Cards
- Ongoing support from your parent educator and fellow parents
Optional extra
One-on-One Private Session
Price: R800
Includes:
45 minute private Zoom call
Online Introductory Workshop
Price: FREE
Next one is on 5 August 2026 from 8pm - 9pm
Learn about the Positive Discipline Principles
Take home some tools you can use immediately.
Meet Your Parenting Coach
I am an undergraduate, studying psychology at SACAP and a single mom of 12 year old twin boys. I have been raising them by myself since they were 18 months old. My best friend introduced me to Positive Discipline when they were 3, and at the time, I foolishly thought it was too much work.Fast forward 7 years, and I found myself asking: "if this is what I'm dealing with now, what on Earth is it going to be like when they're teenagers?" Luckily, my best friend reminded me of Positive Discipline, and this time I took the time to listen to the books.It was life-changing!The changes were profound, and happened so quickly! And what I loved most of all, was the way it was teaching me about myself, my own childhood and my style of parenting.I knew deep in my core that this way of parenting would be beneficial to so many people out there, especially in this fast-paced, tech-dominated world of ours. So I decided to get qualified, and see who I could help. I honestly believe that raising children right, is the way to change the world.Let me help you change yours.
FAQs
What Is Positive Discipline?
Positive Discipline is a parenting approach that teaches children important life skills such as responsibility, cooperation, problem-solving, and self-discipline through connection, encouragement, and mutual respect. Rather than relying on punishment or rewards, Positive Discipline helps parents build strong relationships while teaching children to become capable and resilient individuals.
Does Positive Discipline Work?
Yes. Positive Discipline is based on the work of psychiatrist Alfred Adler and psychologist Rudolf Dreikurs and has been used by parents, teachers, and schools around the world for decades. The approach focuses on long-term results by helping children develop self-discipline, responsibility, and intrinsic motivation rather than simply complying out of fear of punishment.
How Is Positive Discipline Different From Gentle Parenting?
Both Positive Discipline and gentle parenting value connection and respect, but Positive Discipline places a strong emphasis on being both kind AND firm at the same time. Parents learn how to set clear boundaries, follow through respectfully, and teach responsibility while maintaining a strong relationship with their children.
Can Positive Discipline Help With Tantrums?
Yes. Positive Discipline helps parents understand the reasons behind tantrums and respond in ways that reduce power struggles and build emotional regulation skills. Instead of focusing on stopping the behaviour in the moment, parents learn tools that help children develop the skills needed to manage big emotions over time.
Can Positive Discipline Help With Backchat?
Positive Discipline can help parents respond to backchat without escalating conflict. Rather than reacting with punishment or arguments, parents learn how to stay calm, set respectful limits, and encourage cooperation. This often leads to fewer power struggles and more respectful communication over time.
Can Positive Discipline Help With Sibling Rivalry?
Yes. Positive Discipline provides practical tools for reducing sibling conflict, teaching problem-solving skills, and helping children feel a sense of belonging and significance within the family. Parents learn how to avoid taking sides and instead guide children towards respectful solutions.
How Do I Discipline My Child Without Punishment?
Disciplining without punishment means focusing on teaching rather than controlling. Positive Discipline uses encouragement, respectful communication, problem-solving, and related consequences to help children learn from their mistakes. The goal is to build responsibility and self-discipline rather than fear, shame, or resentment.
What Age Is Positive Discipline Suitable For?
Positive Discipline can be used with children of all ages, from toddlers to teenagers. The principles remain the same, but the tools and conversations are adapted to suit each child's stage of development.
Are Positive Discipline Workshops Worth It?
Many parents find that Positive Discipline workshops provide practical tools they can use immediately at home. Workshops help parents understand behaviour, reduce conflict, improve communication, and build stronger relationships with their children while creating a calmer family environment.
What Will I Learn In A Positive Discipline Workshop?
In a Positive Discipline workshop, you'll learn practical parenting tools that help you:- Reduce power struggles and conflict
- Set firm and respectful boundaries
- Handle tantrums and big emotions
- Respond to backchat and defiance
- Encourage cooperation without rewards or punishment
- Build your child's confidence and resilience
- Strengthen your relationship with your child
- Create a calmer, more connected family lifeYou'll leave with strategies you can start using immediately, as well as a deeper understanding of why children behave the way they do.
Is Positive Discipline manipulative?
Jane Nelsen, co-author of the Positive Discipline books, often says that all parenting is technically manipulative because parents are trying to influence their children's behaviour. The important question is how we do it. Positive Discipline focuses on guiding children through respect, encouragement, and connection rather than fear, shame, punishment, or control.
Does Positive Discipline mean there are no consequences?
Not at all. Positive Discipline believes children learn best through respectful, related, and reasonable consequences instead of punishment. The focus is on teaching and problem-solving rather than blame and shame.
Is Positive Discipline permissive parenting?
No. Positive Discipline is neither permissive nor authoritarian. It teaches parents how to be both kind and firm at the same time. Children need warmth, connection, and empathy, but they also need clear boundaries, limits, and guidance.
Will Positive Discipline Make My Child Entitled?
No. Positive Discipline encourages children to contribute, solve problems, take responsibility for their actions, and learn from their mistakes. These skills help children develop resilience, accountability, and respect for others.
What If Positive Discipline Doesn't Work?
Like any parenting approach, Positive Discipline takes time and consistency. Many parents see improvements quickly, while deeper changes often happen gradually as relationships strengthen and children develop new skills. The focus is on long-term growth rather than quick fixes.
Is It Too Late To Start Positive Discipline?
No. It is never too late to improve your relationship with your child or learn new parenting tools. Positive Discipline can be effective with toddlers, school-aged children, teenagers, and even young adults. Small changes in the way parents respond can have a significant impact over time.
Does Positive Discipline Work With Teenagers?
Yes. Positive Discipline can be especially effective with teenagers because it emphasizes mutual respect, communication, problem-solving, and connection. These skills help parents maintain influence and strengthen relationships during the adolescent years.
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